<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post152524047536219927..comments</id><updated>2010-06-27T09:17:33.727-03:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Medusa: TEARS ARE NOT ENOUGH:  WHEN CRUELTY GOES BEYOND TH...</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.2medusa.com/feeds/152524047536219927/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html'/><author><name>Medusa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05817998786767534650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>12</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-1581730739418968936</id><published>2010-06-25T16:58:05.393-03:00</published><updated>2010-06-25T16:58:05.393-03:00</updated><title type='text'>This is incredibly sad, my heart goes out to you. ...</title><summary type='text'>This is incredibly sad, my heart goes out to you. It must be awful having your mother and sister to tell you those things. But you&amp;#39;re so strong. If I were in your place, I would&amp;#39;ve starved myself and ended up with even less than I started out with. Don&amp;#39;t let them get to you.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/1581730739418968936'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/1581730739418968936'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1277495885393#c1581730739418968936' title=''/><author><name>heartbrokenisluv</name><uri>http://openid.aol.com/heartbrokenisluv</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-8037316632528646587</id><published>2010-06-25T16:58:05.392-03:00</published><updated>2010-06-25T16:58:05.392-03:00</updated><title type='text'>This is incredibly sad, my heart goes out to you. ...</title><summary type='text'>This is incredibly sad, my heart goes out to you. It must be awful having your mother and sister to tell you those things. But you&amp;#39;re so strong. If I were in your place, I would&amp;#39;ve starved myself and ended up with even less than I started out with. Don&amp;#39;t let them get to you.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/8037316632528646587'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/8037316632528646587'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1277495885392#c8037316632528646587' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-4243860156403006434</id><published>2010-01-12T18:10:33.081-04:00</published><updated>2010-01-12T18:10:33.081-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Its been a while since my comment was posted, I wr...</title><summary type='text'>Its been a while since my comment was posted, I wrote the story, and I really want to thank everyone for your advice, your support. just by reading my story. I was afraid to respond to my own story. I really have tried to see myself as i really am. And I think i have. I feel a lot better now, I have tried to follow your advice: to love myself as I am and stop comparing myself to others.&lt;br /&gt;I </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/4243860156403006434'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/4243860156403006434'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1263334233081#c4243860156403006434' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-1279294947060958523</id><published>2009-12-25T18:07:39.815-04:00</published><updated>2009-12-25T18:07:39.815-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I came across this a bit late, but I'm going to re...</title><summary type='text'>I came across this a bit late, but I&amp;#39;m going to reply anyway. I am your exact height and weight, and I can tell you now, you are not nearly as fat as you think you are. This is your mind messing with you. Your mother&amp;#39;s mental illness is doing the talking here, try not to listen to it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please try to have a look at some of the size acceptance websites out there - they are really</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/1279294947060958523'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/1279294947060958523'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1261778859815#c1279294947060958523' title=''/><author><name>Amy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08890433758039516787</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-7605378559097518023</id><published>2009-12-24T03:58:42.566-04:00</published><updated>2009-12-24T03:58:42.566-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I must start by stating the thing that you fear mo...</title><summary type='text'>I must start by stating the thing that you fear most....YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!  I ache for you that you cannot accept this fact, but I promise you, it is true.  I too, have always been a larger girl/woman, and that is what I shall always be...not because I necessarily choose to be, but because it is how I am built.  I know I come by it honestly from both sides of my family.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, the </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/7605378559097518023'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/7605378559097518023'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1261641522566#c7605378559097518023' title=''/><author><name>GoodbyeGrl</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03816297939146388218</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-6484152663830389591</id><published>2009-12-16T14:23:06.593-04:00</published><updated>2009-12-16T14:23:06.593-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I am in your shoes. At 5'6" I recently hit my 200 ...</title><summary type='text'>I am in your shoes. At 5&amp;#39;6&amp;quot; I recently hit my 200 pound mark. My mother constantly rags on me for my weight. I once called her out on it, telling her that calling me fat only hurt my feelings and made me binge more. Her response &amp;quot;I never called you fat&amp;quot;. No, instead she constantly told me I was putting on weight, how my clothes didn&amp;#39;t fit me right, whether I exercised </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/6484152663830389591'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/6484152663830389591'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1260987786593#c6484152663830389591' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-8686717578318051404</id><published>2009-12-06T16:28:36.098-04:00</published><updated>2009-12-06T16:28:36.098-04:00</updated><title type='text'>There are so many rude people out there in the wor...</title><summary type='text'>There are so many rude people out there in the world, and some of them speak before they think, and dont think about how much they can hurt someone with theire behaviour. I&amp;#39;m really sorry you had to be one of them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Weight doesn&amp;#39;t matter when it comes to beauty, its only the surfuce of a person, its whats inside that counts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I suffer from bulimia, 14 years now, and i </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/8686717578318051404'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/8686717578318051404'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1260131316098#c8686717578318051404' title=''/><author><name>Laila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03251733250917407690</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-2103956536103277749</id><published>2009-12-04T15:08:57.689-04:00</published><updated>2009-12-04T15:08:57.689-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I sympathize with this girl's story, having at one...</title><summary type='text'>I sympathize with this girl&amp;#39;s story, having at one point in my life reaching 200 lbs (but only standing 5&amp;#39; tall.) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I never had an issue with my parents. In fact, their response was rarely anything at all. So when I started putting on weight and getting the reaction from my peers, I was in for a bit of a rocky ride.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is always someone who can&amp;#39;t look past your</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/2103956536103277749'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/2103956536103277749'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1259953737689#c2103956536103277749' title=''/><author><name>Bogrins</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06051818292890672403</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-1962535448415844865</id><published>2009-12-02T19:48:32.142-04:00</published><updated>2009-12-02T19:48:32.142-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Hello,

I felt really sad about your story, and de...</title><summary type='text'>Hello,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I felt really sad about your story, and decided to write some words ( even if I am not a native speaker...) How to start...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At first, being fat is not the same as being ugly- and even if you are big, you can be a wonderful and attractive person!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You might think &amp;quot;how can a stranger from the other side of the world tell me this- if even my own mother is </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/1962535448415844865'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/1962535448415844865'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1259797712142#c1962535448415844865' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-3396011277582652629</id><published>2009-12-02T16:18:50.393-04:00</published><updated>2009-12-02T16:18:50.393-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow.
May I say I absolutely admire your strength? ...</title><summary type='text'>Wow.&lt;br /&gt;May I say I absolutely admire your strength? If I were in your position I probably wouldn&amp;#39;t be alive right now. &lt;br /&gt;Although people tried to put you down in the worst ways, and you often don&amp;#39;t think good of yourself, you still keep trying to be happy, live a normal live. You UNDERSTAND that these people did you wrong and that yes, you should work with what you got.&lt;br /&gt;And </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/3396011277582652629'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/3396011277582652629'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1259785130393#c3396011277582652629' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-4141198473850607976</id><published>2009-12-01T23:33:27.514-04:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T23:33:27.514-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Hello, I know what it is like to not know how you ...</title><summary type='text'>Hello, I know what it is like to not know how you look. I too have Googled pictures of my height compared to my weight to see what I look like, it&amp;#39;s always a grab bag of body types, in the end I still never really know what I look like. &lt;br /&gt;It&amp;#39;s been more than fifteen years for me &amp;amp; despite several years of sustained recovery, I relapsed. &lt;br /&gt;This year I did, hooked on diet pills </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/4141198473850607976'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/4141198473850607976'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1259724807514#c4141198473850607976' title=''/><author><name>Laynie</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-6980766728128126993</id><published>2009-12-01T22:58:40.899-04:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T22:58:40.899-04:00</updated><title type='text'>where do I begin! First the Norman Rockwell photo ...</title><summary type='text'>where do I begin! First the Norman Rockwell photo I have and am in the process of drawing the exact photo I started years ago and never finished because I never felt good enough as an artist and didn&amp;#39;t want to ruin it.&lt;br /&gt;I feel so bad hearing this story.  I grew up with severe abuse and being locked out of the house and starved as a very young child.  Life was hell growing up with no real </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/6980766728128126993'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/152524047536219927/comments/default/6980766728128126993'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html?showComment=1259722720899#c6980766728128126993' title=''/><author><name>Brandee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18204730257607280122</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='13571086845055660646'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.2medusa.com/2009/12/tears-are-not-enough-when-cruelty-goes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-134054311532297815.post-152524047536219927' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/134054311532297815/posts/default/152524047536219927' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>